Diabetes is no joke. I am finally coming to realize what a temperamental disease this is.
I have been Diabetic for about 12 years and for about 10 of those years I have ignored it. I took the meds that were prescribed and went along my business with no regard to how my lifestyle was affecting my health. I trusted that if I just took the meds, I could still live like I wanted to. Little did I know that my body was slowly breaking down. I have been pretty healthy all my life, so whenever I felt out of sorts, I blamed it on weather or allergies. It made sense to me at the time. But, denial is really what it was. I didn't understand Diabetes and I had no desire to learn. I didn't want to hear bad news that could jeopardize the way I was living. Ignorance is bliss. So I thought.
Well, my bliss has expired, and now I must face reality. Currently, I am at an all time low. I have put on so much weight and have been on a accelerating downward spiral for a few years. It's been one health problem after another. And, sometimes I wonder how much of it is actually just the Diabetes wreaking havoc. A year ago I was diagnosed with Lipolymphedema in my legs, but I frequently wonder if that is an accurate diagnosis. If so, I will suffer with leg issues forever. If it's the Diabetes, then I have a chance of having legs that don't frustrate me 75% of everyday once I get my sugar in check permanently. That would be awesome!! Because, not only do they feel tight, tender and like cement all day, but now I have a pinched nerve that hurts all the time and my knees are starting to give out and hurt. It's miserable and makes it hard to do any kind of activity.
Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is the hardest thing for me to do. MUCH harder than raising kids...twins even! The temptations for me are SO strong and the habits I've developed are so bad. I have a consistent pattern of doing well for a couple of weeks then I miss my old ways and fall off the wagon big time. And it's usually worse than before...if that's possible. It's an irrational thought process that I go through. I consider eating healthy a punishment, so when I am obedient and behave like I'm supposed to, I think I should be rewarded. With food. It will start as a small reward that becomes bigger and bigger then eventually I release myself from the punishment because I've totally screwed up. That's the best way I can think of to describe it. Bottom line is I am spoiled, I like the way I eat because it tastes good and it's easy. I don't want to give that up. I am scared to. Living any other way is so foreign to me.
Because of my size and multiple health problems my quality of life has plummeted and my risk of death has skyrocketed. Very scary to admit and accept.
In order to reverse this I have decided to get weight loss surgery. It wasn't the route I ever wanted to go, but the risks of me not taking this extreme measure outweighs the risks of surgery. I will be getting the Gastric Sleeve. My surgeon thinks it's best to start with that because of my other health issues...history of blood clots being the most concerning. If I don't see the results I want then he can go back in and do the rerouting part which will increase the weight loss results. I'm not looking to be thin, in fact I like being a bit pudgy (curvy). I just want to have an INDEPENDENT life again. I miss doing normal things, walking up stairs, doing outdoor activities, fitting into regular chairs. I'm tired of being huge, unable to walk, getting winded all the time, depending on my family so much.
I have already started the process to prepare for the surgery. I've seen most of the specialists I'm supposed to. My insurance requires that I follow a medically supervised diet for 6 months and lose at least 5% of my weight. I was put on a low carb diet, taken off insulin and put on another form of diabetic medication that isn't insulin. At first I was excited to start this diet and saw outstanding results immediately. I lost weight quickly and my sugar level went in range right away. Well...as usual, the temptations and draw to old habits reared its ugly head again. I've still managed to lose some more weight, but my sugars are through the roof again. Time to reevaluate and readdress my meds again until I can behave and stick to the low carb diet like I was told to.
The most frustrating part of this is my own childish behavior and my lack of self control. The fact that I continuously let down my family and worry them kills me. The fact that I know what I'm supposed to do, but my inner voice is SO persuasive, SO persistent and nonstop, I feed it to shut it up. The funny part is that feeding brings on a whole other inner voice. But, that that one isn't quite so loud.
I am so disappointed in myself right now. I am still gung ho about this surgery because I am anxious to see how I respond both physically and mentally. I know I'll be a nightmare to tolerate for a while. My self talk will be so important for my recovery and success. Luckily, I have always been a very positive person and can see the silver lining in most things. So that's good. But, the Diabetes magnifies the difficulties I have because when my sugar is high, I'm emotional, tired, hungry, irritable and all things that lead to self destruction with food. And, I eat junk just in order to have the feel good hormone back for just a little while, which raises my blood sugar. This cycle repeats itself all day.
There are 2 different "feel good" states of mind that I have. The one with junk food is like a drug high that I'm giddy and just happy. The one with healthy food is clarity and energy. I like them both, but the junk food one tastes better, so I choose that one the majority of the time. My goal is to find that balance so I can have a better relationship with food. One that I can marry happiness with clarity. That is my dream.
For the meantime, I will continue to get ready for surgery. My ups and downs are far from over. I just hope that my family will be forgiving of my setbacks. And that I can remain strong and stay positive.
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